Why am I so afraid of success?

Why am I so afraid of success?

Have you ever felt like no matter what you do you cannot achieve success in certain areas? Over and over again it seems I turn away from conversations where people are complaining about their financial situations lately and it has prompted me to write this entry.

First you must understand that human beings are complex structures that require consistent flows of energy.

The law of conservation of energy.

This states that energy can be neither created nor destroyed. However, energy can change forms, and energy can flow from one place to another.

When you surround yourself with fear energy like conversations of how financially poor things are you start to alter you state of consciousness to a heighten fear base one. If you were to look at an EEG graph of you brain when this fear goes though you and your mind races to your bills and your expenses and your limiting beliefs you would see fluctuations in you energy levels all over the place. You will notice that suggestions made to a conscious mind usually have little or no effect they are suppressed by all the existing beliefs and previous programming.

However, when you alter your state of consciousness though hypnosis, self awareness and personal suggestions given in a deep trance session,  you train your brain to become stronger and fear based thoughts bounce off and your energy of creation and possibilities stay strong as well as your creative force of attraction of resources. You are in a completely different wave level in your brain where the rhythms easily accept new behaviors and  healthy beliefs.

In this state you can be asked what is your fear of success and you will be given the root answer and uncover the blocks which often are not logical answers. Find a book on self hypnosis and learn to get in tune with you and trust in the answers are revealed because you deserve to be any kind of successful you choose.

Affirmation: I embrace success and choose it in every way!   

Dream it, Believe it, Plan it, Achieve it!

Hugs, Kisses, Love and Positive Wishes,

Your Hypnocoach,

Amy Emme

Have you ever asked the question, What is my life about?  Perhaps you phrased it this way, What is my Purpose? 

This was an act of love by my dear friend Regine and it inspired me so much I wanted to share. Many years of seeing clients and training people to accept their greatness has blessed me with the opportunity to witness so many amazing gifts of life shared. It is my opinion life is here to give us a chance to put into practice love. The first learning is to fully accept to love ourselves. I believe this is the greatest challenge facing the human race.  

When we accept that we are here to practice love we must first clarify what is love in the way I speak of it. Love as described here is when you open up to be courageous and trust in the impeccability of  you words.  When you choose to let the stories go that run in the hamster wheel of your mind and accept that every moment you have spent in this lifetime has been given to you to help you learn acceptance. EVERY MOMENT, a chance to see to feel, to experience, and most of all love through the pain and emerge with more compassion and understanding, purpose and passion, where before,  there may have been only judgment.

I am deeply grateful for you sharing your life with me and for you giving me the chance to share with you. This is one way I get to practice love. Inside of you is a wonderful amazing student and teacher. By transforming all your energy and  faith into living acts of love you really get to know yourself and to experience true greatness.

 You don't have to find love it will choose you in each moment all you have to do is allow it in. Celebrate it's presence through total self surrender. You deserve love and the more you acknowledge that the more you will be surrounded by and able to enjoy it. This is your true life's purpose to love in all you do.

Affirmation:  I choose to share my life by allowing love in and sending it out!

Dream it, Believe it, Plan it, Achieve it!

Hugs, Kisses, Love and Positive Wishes,

Your Hypnocoach,

Amy Emme

Are you afraid of dark nights--

Are you feeling alone? Lost? Perhaps like if you screamed at the top of you lungs you still would not be heard? When we feel abandoned by the light of life and all it has to offer there is a huge learning for us. It is in these times of stillness we can hear our heart. When we are listening to the sound of our sadness it is a time to get clear that we have lost ourselves to the expectations of others and worn the label like a badge.

Often life becomes so busy we get distracted by the noise and it keeps us from really hearing what is wanting to emerge in and through us.  Just think about your day from the time the alarm goes off you are surrounded by things directing your to your next programmed destination. When are you stopping to hear your heart in  the day?

If you are unsure, stop now, close your eyes, cover your ears, just take a deep breath and concentrate on the center of your chest. Notice that you can not only hear in from the inside of your head you can feel your whole body responding to it's rhythm.  

Let's take it a step farther, slowly now notice how you are the drummer of  it's beat and you are conducting your mind to speed it up or slow it down based on your perception to the circumstances around you. Begin to conduct it to slow down and breathe deeper, focus, concentrate and notice the stillness and the darkness and how that darkness is really a beautiful opportunity to not get distracted rather a place to seize the opportunity to know yourself further. To allow yourself to blossom.

In nature the darkness is as welcomed as is the light.  Just like nature, welcome your dark quiet moments to notice you are really never alone, rather,  you are  being gifted moments to notice how loved you truly are. Your heart is beating for you waiting for you to conduct it and take you to the beauty of the moment. Embrace the dark as well as the light and notice how much you will now receive as a result.  

Affirmation:  I embrace the dark knowing it is as essential  for me as the light

Dream it, Believe it, Plan it, Achieve it!

Hugs, Kisses, Love and Positive Wishes,

Your Hypnocoach,

Amy Emme

The year of MSU is in the clouds for you!

 What if everything you did in your life was pure perfection? Imagine that your best friends were named unlimited opportunities and possibilities and today they are at your door and all you have to do is open the door and invite them in.  What would you want to do with them?

 They ask you what you feel like doing? Remember, you can only succeed at whatever it is. You are a secure, open, willing to grow, loving individual, who is a real team player and leader. In your honesty you are compelled to accept that this is the year of MSU and it excites you. You realize you have really been living  many years according to others desires for you and this year you decide it will be different.

It is after all a magical year  and you hear QUIT WASTING TIME ringing in your ears and you now decide to live longer and each day get stronger! The secret to prosperity is all yours and all you have to do is MSU.

How wealthy will you be this year? How healthy and how much fun will you have? What will your relationships look like and what direction do you want to create for you legacy? Guess what, you get to MSU and it will all be great for you!  

Now are you ready..... ????

How much MSU you do is totally up to you and well you can even include your friends too. Your best friend your subconscious loves to MSU and it is on standby for you.  So what do you say, now are you ready???

It is time and I look forward to learning from all of you the MSU that you will do! Your life  really only means what you say it means anyway. It is something you practice and the more you MSU, the more you do that will serve you. As your hypnocoach I encourage you now to go and embrace your new power to

MAKE STUFF UP!!!!

Affirmation: My mind is me and I make up what I choose to be!

Remember,  your mind will believe you so enjoy yourself!

Dream it, Believe it, Plan it, Achieve it!
Hugs, Kisses, Love, and Positive Wishes
Your Hypnocoach,
Amy Emme

www.amyemme.com

O my goodness! O MY GOODNESS!

O MY GOODNESS! O MY GOODNESS!

In the face of what the news has been painting as doom and gloom, all I see is kindness and beauty. I see friends and families pulling together and getting to the root of what is really important-relationships and possibility.

You see the idea that we have control over our life is really an illusion.  In fact, it is such an illusion, that people suffer from stress, anxiety, and depression just to name a few as a result of it. The minds incessant need to control some aspect of the moments and days based on the stories we have created, because of an opinion, interpretation, perception of an event then grown upon.  These bits distorted, rearranged, categorized then acted upon will either enhance our existence or destroy it. 

I ask you when you see the news, what events stick in you mind because of where you are focusing? Do you see victims or victors? What do you choose? Just remember please remember, where focus goes energy flows and results show.

Tap into your mind and train it to focus on the things that will really serve us as individuals, families, communities, countries and world. Seek to understand and let go of the sickness to control. Be free to deliberately become self aware and create the beautiful places in your mind. Spend time practicing after seeing what most people would label tragic, asking the question, where is the good in this?  You will find it.

Affirmation:  It is a privilege to be alive, to think, to enjoy, to love and I enjoy finding the good and possibilities of this day!

Remember,

Dream it, Believe it, Plan it, Achieve it

Hugs, Kisses, Love, and Positive Wishes

Your Hypnocoach

Amy Emme

www.amyemme.com

Ready for all your wishes to come true!!!

Are you ready to summon your magic carpet and fly away to paradise somewhere in the land where there are 100's of shades of gray or maybe multicolored places where raindrops are lemon drops and gumdrops, o what a world that would be. Actually you could walk outside with your mouth open wide- yummy!

Well, what if you could live a life of wealth and health, where each day you sprung from bed excited to meet the day full of opportunity and possibility and ready for adventure in all the small and big things, would you enjoy that? I know a few  people for sure who would, who do,  and some who are. When you learn  how to use your imagination instead of your willpower, you enlist the powers of your subconscious mind and really begin to fly!

To use mental force or willpower, is to presuppose that there is opposition. However, the act of imagination accepts all desires and allows you to feel the thrill of accomplishment, your subconscious brings about the realization of your desire. Many people in the tops of their fields have seen it many times before the actual event occurs- imagination in the form of visualization. Focused, controlled, directed, and disciplined imagination, practiced at best when the body is completely in a relaxed state, like before bedtime, as vividly as possible is the best time for results to form. Image what it would look like, sound like, smell like, feel like and even taste like to have that thing you desire. Include as many senses as possible and really center and tap in calling forth all of your resources, enjoying the process, really having fun like when you were a kid and believed without judgement - just believe whole heartily.  Just enjoy!

Affirmation: I am what I imagine myself to be.

Remember,

Dream it, Believe it, Plan it, Achieve it

Hugs, Kisses, Love and Positive Wishes

Your Hypnocoach

Amy Emme

www.amyemme.com

Climbing Mountains the key to any success!

Ever wanna jump in life from peak to peak because going through the valley seems like it just takes too long? Ever feel like you are too old to learn to climb mountains, don't have enough time, not enough desire, or it is just that you were not made to do it? Where else is this showing up in your life?

Hulda Crooks, at the age of 91,  became the oldest woman to complete the ascent of Mt. Fuji in Japan.  She has inspired me to write this blog today. I see many clients often over 70, still wanting to learn about themselves and how to be the greatest version of themselves. They want to uncover their blocks and climb more personal mountains. I found it interesting this week how one person at 70 feels they have to hurry and get things in order for their funeral, while the other wants to hurry and get ready to climb that mountain? Which do you feel you currently resemble? 

Point I want to make, is if you see the peaks in the picture above they are separated with a valley. Our mind needs valleys to rebuild and rejuvenate. A place where we can breathe in the heavily oxygenated air and resupply our cells. We are not made to peak jump the valleys in life are very important. The valley is the place we assess which mountain we want to climb next and what peak we choose to focus on.

You see, it's never the environment or the events in our lives that that keep us where we are, it is the  meaning we attach to those events, how we interpret them that shapes who we will be today or tomorrow. Will you be preparing to die or climb mountains? Hypnotize yourself now by by affirming you are ready to be a mountain climber and starting training your mind to scale any mountain.   

Affirmation: I can climb any mountain while enjoying the valleys in between

Remember,

Dream it, Believe it, Plan it, Achieve it

Hugs, Kisses, Love and Positive Wishes

Your Hypnocoach

Amy Emme

www.amyemme.com